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Thinking Aloud
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Thinking Aloud - July 2010 |
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Written by Sue Green
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Sidelined?
Wayne knew that a lot of people went to football matches and often wondered what it would be like. His parents - who were not interested in football at all - wondered where his fascination came from, but found it difficult to help him. They tried - birthdays and Christmas always included something - the strip from the favourite football team; a football (of course); books on how to play; an annual on Sunderland AFC (they really didn't know much). They were also glad to know that Wayne's need were met by the school, who taught the theory of football, although cuts had prevented the actual playing of the game.
Wayne's parents didn't take him to football matches, nor did they have time to take him to any of the Junior football opportunities - and anyway, who wanted to stand around on a cold, wet, muddy field shouting themselves hoarse? Wayne sometimes kicked a ball around with a couple of friends, but there were never enough of them even to form two teams. Slowly, Wayne's interest in football died away, the strip wore out and was used for cleaning the car, the books gathered dust and the football deflated at the back of a cupboard.
Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? Yet that is the state of many of our children with regard to matters of faith, religion and God. We comfort ourselves that our children are taught RE at school - but that's as exciting as learning about the offside rule when you've never even kicked a football. It can be hard for children to come together in a group large enough to be fun as they experience God together. This is why our churches have chosen to support the work of a full time youth worker in our parishes. We provide Prayers & Bears for pre-school children; Messy Church for children up to Year 4; Holiday Clubs for primary school age and hope soon to have a group dedicated to the 9-14s.
Why not let your child off the bench? Let them experience faith in action for themselves. Let them make their own minds up about what they believe and how they express that belief. All they need is your interest - and a lift in the car!
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Thinking Aloud - June 2010 |
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Written by Sue Green
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Brief Encounter
A lovely thing happened to me the other day. Out kayaking on the river Dart above Totnes I heard, just behind me, a sound like a rapidly deflating tyre. Turning around, I found myself face to face with a Grey Seal, head above the water, regarding me with apparent interest. We stared at one another for thirty seconds or so before it gently vanished beneath the water.
I was, of course, entranced - what a lucky encounter! But it was going to get even better. I waited for a couple of minutes and eventually spotted the seal popping up a couple of hundred yards down the river. Naturally, I set off to follow it, trying to make sure I kept a a distance so it wasn't spooked. But Seal was having nothing of that! It was happy to get closer and closer. If it came up behind me and I wasn't looking, it would make the 'snorfling' noise to get may attention: If we were in eye contact, it remained silent. It was having a great day human-spotting!
And so we passed through busy Totnes together, with the traffic roaring on the bridge and families playing and picnicking in the park. A couple of people shouted 'Seal!' and pointed, but most remained unaware of this wonder in their midst - heads down as they trudged home from work; joggers obliviously cocooned in iPod world; drivers stuck in the traffic and looking bored and frustrated.
Eventually I had to say a reluctant goodbye to 'my' seal and turn around, to paddle back feeling utterly blessed and full of delight and joy. I was reminded of a quotation I once read - though I have been unable to source it - that to search for God was like trying to catch a glimpse of some shy wild animal. Much time is spent watching, waiting, hoping, planning to put yourself in the right place. Yet often, when we do see it, it is in the midst of something else, totally unexpected, a moment of grace and gift. So it is with God. We may spend time in prayer, in good deeds, in study - and often it can seem dry and hard. Then, suddenly, will come a moment of grace as God is suddenly with us. Others around may not see Him - but we will - and we will be lost in joy and treasure that moment for ever. |
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Thinking Aloud - May 2010 |
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Written by Sue Green
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Mowing the Lawn
In these days after Easter, the weather has turned suddenly warm. We've gone from being a nation of people huddles grumpily around the fire staring out at the lashing rain to a people quite literally full of the joys of spring. Suddenly, the lanes are full of cyclists, walkers and riders. People are sitting in their gardens, which are suddenly burgeoning, and I have even met people who are delighted to be mowing the lawn. Yes, suddenly life seems good again!
It's worked well for me, having a few days off after Easter as I've been able to get back outdoors for a brief break walking, sailing and kayaking. The Vicarage lawns remain long, but I'd quite relish couple of hours out there with the mower.
It's so good that this release from the long grip of winter has come with Easter, for this is what the Easter season is all about. What so many of us are feeling is a sudden up-rush of energy, an unexpected enthusiasm for getting things right and straight, a chance to play, and even a joy in the mundane things - like mowing the lawn - that we will doubtless be grumbling about within a few weeks.
It gives us a little glimpse into what it was like for those first Christians as they turned from a spiritless and despondent group of ex-followers locked away for fear of what the crowds might do to them into - well, still a bunch of ordinary people, but people who had met Jesus raised from death to a new kind of life. They were brave where before they had been fearful. They spoke of their faith instead of hiding it away. They had a zest for life which had not been there before, but they were not afraid of death, for they now knew that death was a gateway into a new and different kind of life.
And that it what it can still be like for anyone who wants to be an ordinary, everyday follower of Jesus. |
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Thinking Aloud - March 2010 |
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Written by Sue Green
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Mothering
Just in case you need reminding, Mothers' Day (originally Mothering Sunday) falls this month on March 14th. On it, we will treat our mothers well - as if one day in the year was enough! - and provide special treats and, more importantly, say 'Thank you' for all that mothers provide for us, so often taken for granted.
To be honest, I have always preferred the day to be called 'Mothering Sunday' - possibly because I have no children myself. 'Mothering Sunday' seems to me to cover that much wider range of 'mothering' that all of us - men and women can give to one another.
The true nature of mothering is to be self-giving and to put the other first. The true nature of mothering is to receive thanks gladly, but expect to be taken for granted most o the time. Mothering may need sometimes to be tough, but only out of love. Mothering is not given only to children, but also from adult to adult as we care for one another in our bad times, giving practical help, emotional comfort and the rock-like certainty that there is someone there for us.
We are so used to thinking of God as 'Father' that many still fling up their hands in horror when it's suggested that God should also be addressed as 'Mother' and see it as some recent form of extreme feminism. But in fact, God is considered as a mother from at least 3000 years ago. In Psalm 131 we read, 'I still my soul and make it quiet: like a child upon its mother's breast, my soul is quieted within me'. And is Hosea 5 it says, 'Yet it was I who taught (you) to walk, I took them up in my arms. I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks'.
So, this Mothering Sunday, be glad that God cares for us with the tenderness of a mother, and be ready to receive that love, and to give it to others. |
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Thinking Aloud - February 2010 |
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Written by Sue Green
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Glorious Lent!
In the middle of this month we will once again eat pancakes on Shrove Tuesday and begin Lent on Ash Wednesday. What difference if any - will Lent make to you this year?
Perhaps the answer is to be found in spring, for in spring we see a huge change - away from the cold, dark deadness of winter and into the warmth and light of spring and the glorious new growth which they bring.
This is change which doesn't come as part of a gargantuan struggle of self-denial, but as an irresistible response to a change in conditions. Maybe we can learn from this. Instead of trying to improve ourselves by pulling on our own bootstraps, perhaps we can just allow natural change to take place in us.
For this to happen, we'll need to do two things. The first is to open ourselves up to God's presence. It will be different for each of us, but just make time to be in the presence of God. This doesn't have to be forced, or hard work. Find time to make yourself a cup of coffee and sit outside in the sun in a moment of warmth. Be grateful to God for this moment of joy; chat to him about things that worry you or hopes you have. Let God lead you into the right next thing for you. If you can, share your thoughts with trusted friends and family - they can be a great help in clarifying your thoughts.
Then, if you find God leading you in a particular direction, use your common sense and find out more. I found myself challenged by the Copenhagen summit to think more about my carbon footprint on the planet. An online check surprised me by showing that the intercontinental flight I'd made was trivial, and that my efficient little car with its low mileage didn't even register! What I actually needed to do to change was to address other areas of my life!
So, what is Lent to be for you this year? What will it do for you? What will it do for others? |
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